A month after saying goodbye to their mother, three people sit facing each other at Mom's kitchen table. Mari, the brother's wife who never once visited during the caregiving, crosses her arms and speaks first: half and half, by law. What, you think you're the only child? The nursing home's visitor log: Haena, 212 visits. Her brother and his wife, 0. And Haena's answer was one nobody at that table saw coming.